Tuesday, 8 July 2014

Disappointments



(6 Jun 10)
            The woman who sat across my table handed me a couple of newspaper cuttings stating that the mobile-phone towers radiated horrid cancer-causing rays. She said she’d done some blood tests to check the radiation levels in her body and they were ‘ok’. But someone told her that this hospital had some special tests for checking whether they were making her cells/tissues/organs malignant and she came to make doubly sure she was not going to die of cancer. I was curious: what did she want to die of… she looked about my age, in her mid-fifties. I checked with our labs: no, there was no test that could for sure say that a person would not die of cancer. I then checked with our radiation oncologists and they told me to tell her not to worry, the radiation from the mentioned towers were non-ionizing (she’d have to look up the dictionary and then ask someone to explain further what that means). They would do her no harm.
            I’m quite, quite definite that she, like many others, is going to check on what will give her a heart problem, osteoporosis, stroke, kidney failure, wrinkles, etc, and work on her food habits to avoid all of them. She will turn every brinjal, pea-pod and green chilly to make sure it’s free from visible defects. She will tune in to the various television channels to make sure her spiritual side is enriched either with yoga or special modern breathing techniques or ancient chants or wearing magnetic wrist-bands or drinking karela-juice. 
            Every ‘free’ camp that we conduct has regulars. One of the reasons they come is for the chai-nashta. The other is that they ‘gain knowledge’ through our awareness programs. Over a period of time, they become experts. How often do we hear people say they know everything about so-and-so disease/medicine because they’ve read it on the net. I sometimes feel our doctors waste their time slogging for their degrees (uh, some of them waste their money buying certificates) when they could/should have browed one free site after another. There are those who will ask what they consider tricky questions, which the specialists consider irritating ones, because answering them involves a series of but whys…. Responded to with ‘aha… you know what, I read that the side effects are…’. There’s a ‘gotcha’ in their superior tones. They attend cataract camps, diabetes check-up camps, pulse-drop Sunday dos, hernia camps, stroke awareness programs, cardiac programs, everything and anything concerning health. Including weight-loss and music-can-cure and magic-herb-extract demonstrations.
            Even in the tea-time of my life, I wonder, what is it that these people fear? I saw how many doctors, technicians, nurses and managers flocked around one particular patient’s husband: he was a palmist. And I remembered one of the most entertaining writing assignments I’ve ever done. I had to write the full year’s predictions for all the zodiac signs, and then for the Chinese signs. I’m a non-believer when it comes to see-the-future, but a job that paid wasn’t to be scoffed at. So I read a couple of cheap books on the topic that I picked off the streets… some a couple of years old, and found that I could conjure up your-stars-this-week by doing a couple of combinations: gastric trouble with romance in the air; family trouble with job opportunity; children-trouble with unexpected good fortune; partner-trouble with travel-abroad. I had a great time exercising my imagination, and an even better time trying to figure out how many had lived their lives that year based on my creative little paragraphs.
            There are people who love to exchange symptoms: “You have sugar? Me, too. Diabetes.” There are those who will moan over perfectly normal physiological functions: “I’m such-and-such age and still get my periods.” This is beautifully countered by: “I’ve going through my menopause. So much suffering, you know.” Smart doctors make money thanks to this kind. They want a sympathetic ear, and they’re willing to pay for it. They swallow placebos, and they pay for those just as happily. What a win-win situation.
            What happens, I wonder, to those who wait and wait for something to go wrong, and nothing does? They worry that their kids will go astray, and the kids go straight. They worry that the finances will dry up, they multiply. They worry that they will land in hospital beds, and get nothing more than the common cold every alternate year. I guess they spend long years in bitter disappointment. Such a contrast to the smiley, happy types who toil and slog through turmoil and trouble, bravely, without a fuss.
            Takes all kinds to make a world. Without the moaners, could/would literature be written?
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